The job alluded to in my last blog post
did not, in fact, pan out for Warren, but last night he got the good
news that he has been hired as a clerk at the nearby UDF. (For
non-local readers that stands for United Dairy Farmers and is a
combination gas station/convenience store/ice cream parlor.) This
job has two big advantages, we believe. One, it does not involve
cooking or kitchen work; and two, it is a comfortably short walk from
our house, so it does not involve coordinating the entire family's
schedule just to get him there and back each day. Please join me in
praying that it turns out to be a job that will work out for him for
a nice long time. I feel strongly that he really needs to experience
the stability of staying in the same job for a year or more, and begin to layer additional new experiences, like college classes, on
top of that base. My belief that Warren will go on to build a
successful, productive, satisfying life has not wavered, nor has my
commitment to help him realize the many wonderful positive character
traits I see inherent in him. But the five months he has lived here
have involved a lot of false starts and struggles and
“two-steps-forward, one-step-back,” and for his sake I ache to
see him experience a period of unambiguous forward progress.
Sam, having completed his Eagle project
and submitted all his college applications, is in a bit of a lull
these days. He has nothing but school work to focus on, which is
sometimes a bit of a hazard for him. But so far he seems to be
keeping his grades where they need to be. I anticipate that after
the first of the year he will have some acceptances, and will then
have to focus on choosing which college will be The One. I keep
reminding him that while money isn't the only factor, it is a factor
in that decision process. And mostly, I keep praying ardently that
God will give us clear guidance on which is the right choice. I don't
so much care which school he chooses, just that we have a strong,
clear sense of which one is right - preferably, that he, Bob and I all get that same sense about the same school.
Today we started doing some Christmas
decorating. It will probably be another week before we are done, but
it is nice to have some lights up and a few things to make us feel
like the holidays are upon us. I have done some Christmas shopping –
which is pretty early for me – and I have scheduled a vacation day
for this Tuesday to try to knock out as much of it as I can while the
stores are not jam-packed with people. Then we have some Christmas
parties to attend, two Masses to sing at on Christmas Eve, and
celebrations with both the Emerson and Beasley families to look
forward to. The Christmas season usually moves even faster than the
rest of the year, and I hope to do everything in my power to savor it
as it glides by.
So really, I'm just full of
anticipation: of sharing in Warren's new job experiences, of sharing
a wonderful Christmas season with loved ones, of seeing where Sam
ends up choosing to go to school, and of the many unforeseeable
changes, challenges and thrills that make our life so much fun. Never
a dull moment!
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